Meeting Your Online Date Face to Face and What to Do If it Goes Wrong

Well done. You have joined a great dating site, and found what you feel is your ideal partner. After getting to know each other online, and seeing the picture, all is well and you decide to meet face to face. This is the first step in a new relationship, will it be everything you have ever dreamed of? or will it all go wrong? If it does turn into a nightmare, and you need to get out and fast, how do you do it, and what precautions should you take to make sure you keep your escape routes open?

You may have emailed, spoken on the phone, and seen the other persons smiling face on a digital photo, even so your first meeting is in reality little better than a blind date. So you are there nervously waiting for your soul mate, but after you meet you realize quickly that there is little hope of a spark, and all you can hope for is a fire drill or other man made disaster to end it as quickly as possible. You can’t rely on fate intervening, so how do you ditch a bad date? Here are eight practical options you should always have in mind in case of a bad date emergency.

1 – First impressions count. Make sure you are there first and get yourself in a position where you can see the door. In such a way that you can see your date arrive but they can’t see you. If you get a look at them and they look approximately like the photo, but 10 years older or 50 pounds heavier, you can escape down your previously surveyed getaway route. You can always make an excuse phone call and apology once you are out. It’s guilt free you only ran because they lied first.

2 – The escape call. Before leaving for your date make sure you arrange with a friend to call you at a time when you will be a little into your date. After answering the call you can either tell your date it was not important, if all is well, if not however you can fake an emergency that will get you out of there fast.

3 – The fake call, If you didn’t arrange a get out call, you can always fake one, either by saying you have received a text message, or by going to the bathroom and saying someone called whilst you were away.

4 – The reverse fake call – You or a friend, can call the venue where you are having the date, and get them to page your nightmare companion with a fake emergency. They will be puzzled when they receive the message, but nine times out of ten will make their excuses and leave. This may also get you a free meal, don’t hang around too long though, because they may come back!

5 – The fake illness – You can always say you feel ill and need to leave, this takes a bit of care as if you seem too ill, your date may try and leave with you to look after you, so use with caution.

6 – If you are feeling particularly callous you can go the the bathroom and instead run straight out of the exit and don’t look back. Variations of this can be used depending on what type of venue you find yourself in.

7 – This works better for women, but can be adapted for both sexes. Why not use psychological warfare, and get your date to run out on you, by announcing how cute your kids will be, or how you can already see you two being married. Extreme variations of this can include, talking about the voices in your head or even talking to the voices in your head. The main advantage of this method is, if your date dumps you, you will still get to enjoy the meal, drinks, or whatever, and it’s completely guilt free.

8 – Shockingly you could try being honest. Talk to your date say you are sorry but you can see no hope of this date working, make your excuses and go. The advantage of this is whilst not being entirely guilt free, it is a little less heartless than just running, especially if carefully worded.

I hope these tips help you next time you find yourself in a hopeless situation and gets you out of there fast. I know it may seem cold but there really is no point prolonging a date once you see it has no future. Move on and better luck next time.

Online Dating Services – Not Just for the Younger Generation Anymore

If you’re over the age of 40, you may not think the online dating scene has very much to offer you. But you would be wrong!

Not only are people 30 years old and younger signing up for online dating services memberships in record numbers, so are people much older than that. So if you’re a little more, shall we say, mature, you’ll be pleasantly surprised to find yourself in good company on an online dating service website.

Actually, the company may be so good, that you can finally tell your nosey friends to bug off and stop trying to fix you up. You can make your own dates using an online dating service, and they’ll be dates you’ll really want to go out on because online dating services give you the chance to get to know people before you go to the trouble and expense of going out on a date. Now, you can’t do that with that blind date your friend Sue keeps trying to set you up with, thank goodness.

And you don’t have to worry about security and confidentiality on online dating websites. All your personal information is kept personal until you’re ready, if you ever are, to divulge it. If someone falls head over heels in love with you and they start bugging you, you can have that person blocked from contacting you. Too, if at anytime you feel someone is being abusive or threatening in any way, you can report them, and many online dating services will revoke the threatening person’s membership.

So online dating is safe and secure, it must be hard, right? Nothing could be further from the truth. You simply fill out the membership form, pay, post your profile and picture if desired, then BOOM! You’re in the online dating business!

What could be better! Well, just the fact that you can place yourself in a category or sign up at a special online dating service site that lets you be a bit more selective in the other mature or senior singles you’d like to connect with. For example, there are Jewish online dating services, Asian online dating services, and Christian online dating services just to name a few. You can even sign up for particular cities through websites devoted to them. Atlanta online dating services, Cincinnati online dating services, New York online dating services and Nashville online dating services are just a few examples. And while your own city may not have an online dating service of its own, you can check into dating services of larger cities close to you.

So what are you waiting for? The significant other of your dreams is just a mouse click away!

Online Dating is a Great Idea For Beginning Your Own Business

In order to be successful in your own business of online dating you should be a good matchmaker. There are multitudes of single individuals who use online dating sites in order to meet and get to know others. Today it is much easier to go online to search for a companion than it is to physically go out and try to find one. The reason for this is that you have the opportunity to choose from the characteristics that you find desirable in a companion. Before starting your business, you should take the time to investigate other online dating site to learn more about them.

Before you begin, you will need to find the ideal model for your business that has the capability to offer the best service to those who seek online dating. By doing so, you will be able to gather in the good individuals while filtering out any foolish undesirables. This will help your clients to feel secure in using your online dating site to find their future companions. It also encourages your clients to recommend your site to their friends and associates.

You will also require the services of a good website designer and a good online hosting company in order to launch a productive and successful online dating service. Having these in place can aid you in maintaining your data as well as the relative amount of traffic you will attract by multitude of new clients. On the other hand, you may consider becoming your own host and managing your own server to gain the knowledge of all that occurs in your business.

When you begin your own online dating business, you desire to be well accepted and very successful. In order to be successful you will need to consider the factors of good quality content and publicity costs to your budget. When considering the publicity for your site, you want to be impressive and distinctive from all the others. Keep in mind that to do this efficiently that you will have to invest a considerable budget so that you can reach as many individuals as possible.

One good idea is making use of professional visiting cards for your online dating business. You can use these to increase the publicity of your dating service to a higher level of success. You can contact more prospective clients while using professional visiting cards. This will impress them and when they admire your services, they can pass them on to their friends and associates, thereby increasing your business and profits. You should also consider listing your online dating business on the various internet search engines. This will enable you to increase your website traffic significantly.

Therefore, when you have the knowledge, determination and the finances to begin your own business you help to secure your success. The essential keys required to succeed in your own online dating business are the desire to succeed and the knowledge of the software that you will use. You can be successful by planning a budget for publicity and software purposes for this particular type of online exchange and a strong desire and determination to create a successful online dating business.